Capture the Memories

Every family is rich in history, and every family member has a story. These family stories show our values, humor, sadness and dreams. If we do not capture and record our family's stories, we lose them forever.

You can record memories yourself in one of the many books available for this purpose. But it's more fun to work on the project as a team: grandparents and grandchildren or parents and children. This time spent together gives you a chance to know each other better.

The easiest way to record the stories is with a tape or video recorder. You can type up the story later.

Always test your recording. Tapes can be ruined by background noise you might not notice or by mechanical problems.

Don't do the stories in one sitting. You will be surprised how much easier it will be on the following visits.

Have questions prepared for the visit. Here are some questions you may want to use.

1. Do you remember any stories from your childhood that were used as guides for living?
2. Do you recall any games, riddles or songs?
3. How were weddings celebrated?
4. What did people do for entertainment?
5. What was your school like?
6. How did you celebrate holidays?
7. How did young people meet each other and date?
8. Do you recall any stories about working?
9. How did people take care of their health?
10. What are some of your favorite memories from your youth?
11. What were your greatest fears?
12. What did you think your life was going to be like?
13. How did you meet grandpa or grandma?
14. What were your chores or jobs?
15. What has been the biggest surprise of your life?

The elderly have a lot to teach us bout our own existence. Much of what we learn about our world, our society and our friends comes to us from stories passed down from generation to generation. If we lose these stories, we lose valuable lessons and miss out on wonderful entertainment. And grandma's or grandpa's stories are a precious and unique gift to share with today's family members, as well as future generations.

Debbie Wilburn is County Agent/Family and Consumer Science Agent with the Hall (770)535-8290 and the Forsyth (770)887-2418 County Extension Service.