MARIETTA - Marietta Mayor Bill Dunaway has apologized after a black member of the City Council complained about a remark containing a reference to a ``tar baby.'' <br>
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``It was inappropriate. It was disrespectful. It was demeaning,'' said Anthony Coleman, the lone black member of the seven-member council. <br>
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Discussing a problem at a meeting this week, Dunaway advised the council to ``do like a tar baby and say nothing.'' <br>
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The mayor, who is white, said he was referring to the Uncle Remus tale in which Brer Rabbit is infuriated by the silence of a doll made of tar and then becomes stuck by pounding on it. <br>
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Dunaway said he thought it was a ``sticky situation'' the city faced and wanted to remind the council that sometimes the best course is to keep quiet. <br>
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``I understand that no one in the black community was raised on the Uncle Remus stories, and they consider them offensive. But I consider them moral tales: The tar baby. 'Don't throw me into the briar patch,''' the mayor said. <br>
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Coleman, who was raised during the 1960s in segregated Cobb County, said the remark was offensive to him because ``when I think about the tar baby, I think about the person with the dark face, the big lips.'' <br>
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Dunaway said he has apologized to Coleman and is apologizing to the other members individually. He plans to apologize to the group at its next meeting Monday, he said. <br>
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``I never should have made the statement. I did. I goofed,'' Dunaway said.